Myrna Morrissey, the estranged wife of state Sen. Joe Morrissey, D-Chesterfield, alleges in a court filing that he assaulted and emotionally abused her during their marriage while asking her to keep up the appearance of a happy life so he could advance politically.
She filed for divorce Thursday in Henrico County; Axios Richmond first reported on the filing Wednesday morning.
Her allegations are a contrast to public portrayals of the couple in recent years. The couple married in 2016 following Sen. Morrissey’s December 2014 conviction on a misdemeanor crime because their relationship began in 2013, when she was 17 years old. Sen. Morrissey, 55 in 2013, served nights in jail for more than three months as a member of the House of Delegates.

Sen. Morrissey, right, talks to a supporter as he awaits election results with his wife, Myrna, and two children, Chase and Bella, at his campaign headquarters in Richmond on Nov. 8, 2016.
Sen. Morrissey said by phone Wednesday that his wife was making false allegations because he had accused her boyfriend of spanking one of their children. “It breaks my heart but that’s what she’s doing,” he said.
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During their marriage, the divorce filing alleges, his wife saw messages on his phone in which he solicited naked photos from other women.
By the end of 2018 and after “ongoing infidelities” by her husband, Myrna Morrissey wanted to end the marriage, her filing says.
“The husband persuaded her to stay, because he was about to run for State Senate, and a divorce would hurt his campaign,” the filing says. “He desired to portray their ‘family’ life to help him overcome the stigma created by their illicit relationship.”
He agreed to move to another house and live separately if she would stay with him through the 2019 election, the filing said.
“The Husband exercised financial control over the Wife and she felt that she had no choice in matters,” the filing says.

In September 2016, then-mayoral candidate Joe Morrissey, right, with his wife, Myrna, speaks on Monument Avenue in Richmond.
Court documents outline allegations
Myrna Morrissey says in her filing that she told her husband she wanted a divorce the night of his successful Senate election victory in 2019. Morrissey defeated a Democratic senator, Rosalyn Dance, in a primary that year and won the general election for a Richmond-area seat.
Myrna Morrissey suffered emotional abuse and physical assault by her husband, according to the document.
He elbowed her in the abdomen while she was pregnant with their third child, and on another occasion grabbed her by the throat, slammed her against the wall, choked her and slapped her face until she stopped fighting back, the filing alleges.
“When the Wife threatened to call the police the Husband said he would tell the police that she was the aggressor because of the scratches he sustained from the Wife trying to get free.”
She alleges he called her by a disparaging curse word, a “spoiled brat” and a “ghetto rat.”
He told her she was powerless against him because of his political position, finances and “friends who do him legal favors,” her filing alleges.
The court filing says he paid her $30,000 to $60,000 per year from his law firm’s payroll from April 2015 to June 2020 even though she had not worked at the firm since August 2013. Sen. Morrissey has been disbarred twice and cannot currently practice law.
She said in the filing that, when she was around 19 or 20, she asked for help managing a large house under renovation and caring for the children, and alleges that her husband told her: “You’re living the American dream!!! What’s so [expletive] hard ?!?“
Sen. Morrissey said Wednesday: “Sadly, my wife is making these reports, these comments because I reported that her boyfriend had spanked my child with a wet belt. I love Myrna and it breaks my heart that she would bring these allegations, make these absolutely false allegations public and doing it at a time that would try to hurt me politically.”
A substitute judge in February found no evidence of child abuse by Myrna Morrissey’s boyfriend.
Northam granted pardon
Earlier this year, Myrna Morrissey alleged that her husband stole her passport. But a prosecutor moved to dismiss a larceny charge against him earlier this month, and a judge dismissed it.
When Sen. Morrissey in late 2021 petitioned then-Gov. Ralph Northam for a simple pardon for the misdemeanor conviction, the petition said he and Myrna Morrissey were “living the American dream.”
“Myrna and Joe Morrissey were happily married on June 11, 2016, and are now raising four (4) beautiful children,” read the petition to the governor, also signed by an attorney for Sen. Morrissey, state Sen. Scott Surovell, D-Fairfax.
“Additionally, Myrna will be the first to acknowledge that she was not in any way manipulated by Joe and that she was in no way coerced by him,” the petition said. “They worked together, they were attracted to each other, they fell in love, married, and are raising four (4) wonderful children together. A beautiful and happy family living the American Dream.”
Northam granted the simple pardon shortly before he left office. A simple pardon is a statement of official forgiveness that does not remove a criminal conviction from the record.
Northam has endorsed another candidate, former Del. Lashrecse Aird, against Morrissey in a June 20 primary election for state Senate in a district that extends from Henrico south to Sussex County.
Both Sen. and Myrna Morrissey acknowledged in court filings earlier this year in a child custody case that they separated on Nov. 8, 2019, two years before Joe’s pardon petition.
At the time of the pardon petition, Myrna Morrissey had had a boyfriend for over a year, and her husband was aware of him, she said in an interview.
In an interview, Sen. Morrissey defended his pardon petition.
“There’s lots of couples that are separated ... and still happy. Things were beautiful, okay?” he said. “She, she found another individual, younger, that’s fine, that happens, I’m a grown up. I understand.”
“It’s true we were very happy. We were co-parenting.”
All six Democratic women in the Virginia Senate Democratic Caucus have endorsed Aird and criticized Sen. Morrissey’s behavior. He has previously enjoyed support from some of the men in his party.
In 2019, former Gov. Terry McAuliffe, who at that time was leading fundraising efforts for Virginia Senate Democrats, joined Senate Democratic Leader Dick Saslaw of Fairfax at Sen. Morrissey’s home to help him raise campaign money after he won the primary that year.
Sen. Morrissey and Surovell are both members of the state Senate Judiciary Committee, where Sen. Morrissey has strong influence in deciding which people are appointed as judges in Virginia’s courts.
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Va. Delegate Joe Morrissey speaks during a Public Square honoring Bob Brown's 45 years at the RTD. Photos taken Tuesday, March 26, 2013.
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Joe Morrissey greets a voter at the North Park Library in Henrico County VA during election day for the 74th District Tues. Jan. 13, 2015.
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Former Richmond Commonwealth's Attorney Joe Morrissey sprays one of his two horses at his farm overlooking the James River in eastern Henrico County. Joseph D. Morrissey
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New Delegate Joe Morrissey places the House of Delegates member's pin on his lapel during the start of the 2008 session in Richmond, VA Wednesday, Jan. 9, 2008. Del. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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House of Delegates candidate Joe Morrissey greets a voter outside the polls at Ratcliffe Elementary School in eastern Henrico County, VA Tuesday, Nov. 6, 2007. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, left, and Del. G. Manoli Loupassi, R-Richmond, right, introduce NASA astronaut Leland D. Melvin, center, to members during the floor session of the Virginia House of Delegates in Richmond, VA Friday, Feb. 27, 2009. Del. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, votes during a meeting of the House Privileges and Elections committee in the General Assembly Building in Richmond, VA Friday, Jan. 30, 2009. Del. Harvey B. Morgan's bill, HB 2465, relating to sanctions imposed upon 40 petitioners by the court in Gloucester County, VA, was passed by the committee. Del. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, right, tells a House Militia, Police and Public Safety subcommittee about the assault-style weapon he wants to ban as the group considered gun control legislation at the General Assembly building in Richmond, VA Thursday, Jan. 17, 2013.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, holds up an AK47-style rifle as he speaks for more control on such weapons during a floor speech to the Virginia House of Delegates at the State Capitol in Richmond, VA Thursday, Jan. 17, 2013.
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Joe Morrissey, overlooking the James River from his home. He will be going to Dublin, Ireland to teach for two years at a law school.
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Joe Morrissey, in front of his house on Osborne Turnpike. He will be leaving Richmond for a two-year teaching stint at a Dublin, Ireland law school.
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Joe Morrissey, during an interview at his home. He will be going to Dublin, Ireland to teach for two years at a law school.
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Sisters of the woman that Joe Morrissey was convicted of contributing to the deliquency of protest Morrissey as he leaves the Richmond Crusade for Voters, Inc. 74th District forum with candidates Matt Walton and Morrissey at Hobson Lodge in Richmond VA Sun. Jan. 11, 2015.
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Denise Lawrence, right and her lawyer Joe Morrissey speak to reporters outside the Spotsylvania General District Court Thursday Oct. 12, 1995 in Spotsylvania, Va., after a hearing in which Lawrence's felony charge of failure to return rental property was reduced to a misdemeanor, and the case was scheduled for trial on November 6. Lawrence was first arrested Oct. 5 for failing to return 4 videos she'd forgotten about.
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Attorney Joe Morrissey speaks with the press about his client Joel Harris at a news conference in his office 2/11/97.
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Attorney Joe Morrissey arrives at federal court in Richmond,Va., Tuesday, Feb. 24, 1998, for sentencing on contempt of court charges he received while defending Joel Harris, a long-time political operative and aide to Richmond's former mayor. Morrissey's sentence of 90 days in federal custody, suspension from practicing in U.S. District Court for the Eastern District of Virginia, and community service was stayed pending appeal.
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Joe Morrissey talks to reporters after his appearance in U.S. Court Wednesday, February 19, 1997.
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Joe Morrissey at the Marshall Courts Building. (center) Joe Morrissey with his two lawyers (L) Larry D. Catlett and (R) Arnold R. Henderson.
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Laughing at a drive-by heckler, lawyer Joe Morrissey left the Richmond Circuit Court on Wednesday, October 6, 1999. The jury deliberating a verdit on his assault trial was sent home for the evening and will reconvene Thursday morning.
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Joe Morrissey arrives at the John Marshall Courts Building 12/28/99 for his disbarment proceedings before a three judge panel. Joseph D. Morrissey
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Del. Joe Morrissey and his legislative aid Brittany Anderson watched the early returns during a Democratic gathering at Sen. Donald McEachin's office at 4719 Nine Mile Road on Tuesday, November 8, 2011. Del. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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David Crigger/Bristol Herald Courier Dominion Operations and Maintenance Manager Danny Woods describes ongoing construction to Delagate Bill Carrico, left, and Delagate Joe Morrissey, right, during a tour of the Virginia City Hybrid Energy Center project. Del. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, holds up an AK47-style rifle as he speaks for more control on such weapons during a floor speech to the Virginia House of Delegates at the State Capitol in Richmond, VA Thursday, Jan. 17, 2013.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, 2nd from left, was joined by, from left, Scooby-Doo, Tweetie Bird and Bugs Bunny for a press conference dealing with HB113, his bill allowing local school boards to set the date for the school year to begin. The meeting was Thursday, Jan. 26, 2012 at the General Assembly Building in Richmond, VA.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, gives a statement to the media after exiting the Henrico County Circuit Court in Henrico County, VA Tuesday, July 1, 2014. Morrissey was arraigned on a five-count indictment involving sexual activity with an underage girl.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, spoke against several bills expanding the death penalty during the floor session of the House of Delegates in Richmond, VA Tuesday, Feb. 2, 2010. Del. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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Family members of Hopewell native Tech Sgt. Phillip Myers, who was killed in Afghanistan April, 4, 2009, were presented a copy of House Joint Resolution 199 honoring the soldier. From left: Del. Joseph Morrissey (D-Henrico) uncle Lavoy Myers, aunt Judy Myers, Del. Riley Ingram (R-Hopewell) and father Eddie Myers of Prince George. Partially obscured at right is girlfriend Tracey Mustain of Chesterfield.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, speaks during the floor session of the House of Delegates at the State Capitol in Richmond, VA Tuesday, Feb. 9, 2010. Del. Joseph D. Morrissey, D-Henrico
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Varina resident Joe Morrissey, left, asks a question during a public meeting on the Tree Hill Farm project at the Omni Hotel in Richmond, VA Wednesday, Nov. 15, 2006. A major mixed-use development is planned for the 500 acre farm in eastern Henrico County, just outside Richmond. Joseph D. Morrissey
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Joe Morrissey hugs his wife Myrna with son Maverick, 17-month as he celebrates his Democratic primary win in 16th District State Senate race at the election party of Plaza Mexico in Petersburg on Tuesday, June 11, 2019.
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Sen. Morrissey, right, talks to a supporter as he awaits election results with his wife, Myrna, and two children, Chase and Bella, at his campaign headquarters in Richmond on Nov. 8, 2016.
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Joe Morrissey hugs his supporter with son Chase after he saw an election result at his campaign headquarter in Richmond on Tuesday, Nov. 8, 2016.
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Joe Morrissey announced he was running for Mayor of Richmond during a gathering along Jefferson Davis Hwy in Richmond VA Thurs. March 31, 2016.
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Joe Morrissey, center left, and Levar Stoney, center right, talk to attendants before Candidate Forum at Richmond Community High School.
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Former Del. Joseph Morrissey distributes photos of himself, the mother of his baby, Myrna Pride, and the baby, Chase, taken on Mothers' Day in Virginia Beach. Morrissey and the mother of his newborn baby Myrna Pride, appeared at a news conference at Morrissey's office, Thursday May 21, 2015.
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Joe Morrissey talks with people before he announced he was running for Mayor of Richmond during a gathering along Jefferson Davis Hwy in Richmond VA Thurs. March 31, 2016.
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Joe Morrissey stands in front of the Diamond in Richmond on Tuesday, Oct. 18, 2016. Morrissey declared he is against city funding of the project.
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Joe Morrissey stands in front of the Diamond in Richmond on Tuesday, Oct. 18, 2016. Morrissey declared he is against city funding of the project.
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In September 2016, then-mayoral candidate Joe Morrissey, right, with his wife, Myrna, speaks on Monument Avenue in Richmond.
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Richmond mayoral candidate Joseph Morrissey called for removing the statue of Confederate President Jefferson Davis from Monument Ave. in Richmond,Va. at a news conference held at the monument on Monday, Sept. 26, 2016.
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Joe Morrissey and Myrna Pride with their son, Chase.
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Joe Morrissey and Myrna Pride with their son, Chase.
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Former Del. Joseph Morrissey kisses his infant, Chase, as the mother of his newborn baby Myrna Pride, appear at a news conference at Morrissey's office, Thursday May 21, 2015.
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(L-R) Bobby Junes and Joe Morrissey confer during the Richmond City Democratic Committee mayoral forum at Martin Luther King Jr. Middle School Tuesday, September 6, 2016.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, I-Henrico, walks past a portrait of former House Speaker John Warren Cooke as he enters the House of Delegates chamber at the State Capitol in Richmond, VA Wednesday, Jan. 21, 2015. It was announced that Mossissey has been indicted on more charges just before he arrived.
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L-R, Candidates, Joe Morrissey and Matt Walton during the Richmond Crusade for Voters, Inc. 74th District forum at Hobson Lodge in Richmond VA Sun. Jan. 11, 2015.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, I-Henrico, talks on the phone as he walks in the first floor of the State Capitol in Richmond, VA, Monday, Feb. 9, 2015.
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Attorney Arnold Henderson (left) listens to Joe Morrissey during a press conference in Morrissey's campaign office on Oct. 29, 2016
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, right, signs papers after being sworn in as a new delegate by House of Delegates Clerk G. Paul Nardo, left, in Morrissey's office inside the General Assembly Building in Richmond, VA Wednesday, Jan. 14, 2015.
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Joe Morrissey votes at the North Park Library in Henrico County VA during election day for the 74th District Tues. Jan. 13, 2015.
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Arriving after the forum had started, Joe Morrissey (right) shakes the hand of Matt Walton during the Richmond Crusade for Voters, Inc. 74th District forum at Hobson Lodge in Richmond VA Sun. Jan. 11, 2015.
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Less than 24 hours after he was sent to jail, Joe Morrissey was back in his law office, on work release.
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Del. Joe Morrissey, D-Henrico, gives a statement to the media after exiting the Henrico County Circuit Court in Henrico County, VA Tuesday, July 1, 2014.